In previous episodes of this series an Awakening coach explains to men how opening their hearts to woman worship can take love to a deeper, more spiritual level
And second, if yes, how are you going to get from where you are now to being able to reach the full capacity of your heart to love for real? Here’s how you get started.
1. Do what I did and create an altar in your room dedicated to the Divine Feminine. Put only symbols of the feminine on it.
I have a painting called “Beatrix” by Dante Gabriel Rossetti. I have a statue of Quan Kin. Populate your altar with anything that reminds you of the feminine, and spend a few minutes of the day in worship. Yes, worship. Adoration. Devotion. Offer up rose petals. Offer poems.
Offer everything, and beg Her to reveal Her innermost essence to you. This will work miracles whether you’re single and waiting to meet the right woman or whether you’re already in relationship and long to meet your woman in a deeper way.
2. Make a practice, a discipline, of telling your woman — or any woman — ten times a day something which you adore about her.
“I love the smell of your shampoo.” “I love the way you laugh.” “The color of your eyes is so beautiful.” Of course, you need to keep it appropriate. You can go as far out on a limb as you like if you’re in relationship with a woman, but with anyone else remember the gates.
Keep your communication appropriate to the gate number that you find yourself at. Appreciation of the curve of a woman’s breast, for example, if she happens to be the cashier at the supermarket, would equate more to harassment than worship.
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Arjuna Ardagh is the founder of the Awakening Coaching Training and Awakening World Seminars. He is the author of seven books, including the 2005 #1 bestseller: The Translucent Revolution. He has been training facilitators of awakening since 1995 in more than 18 countries, and has been a speaker at many international conferences on business and consciousness. Visit Arjuna’s blog to discover more.
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